“Become aware of the process of self-created thought, and you will rule your life.”

1. We create our thoughts and feelings in response to life.
2. The circumstances of life do not create our thoughts and feelings.
3. We decide what we think and feel.

In life situations it is tempting to blame other people when something goes wrong. But blaming them, or blaming yourself, interferes with the process of life. Practice not blaming others for how you think, feel and act. Get control of yourself, and do things right.

Blaming other people creates a loss for you and them. You lose momentum and concentration; you are diverted from your goal when you blame. The people you blame may be hindered and hurt, as well as you. The situation that went wrong is not solved; it is worsened.

Take a walk. Take a break, but don’t blame. Fix the problem. Focus on the solution. Do not involve yourself with another person’s reactions. Let them be who they are. Let what happened be done, and focus on solutions. Focus on specific behaviors and actions that will solve the problem and keep future problems from happening.

If you blame, it interferes with the life of yourself and others. Blame makes situations worse. Correct the problem and move on. Enjoy the day.

You are in control, and you rule your life. When you blame yourself and others, control and love are lost, and the process of life is impeded.

Rule your life. Take control. Take responsibility for how you think, feel and act. Rule yourself. Take charge of the day, and you will get where you want to go.