“There is a place for everyone. We all can survive and thrive
in mystery and wonder, forever, with every need met as we
focus on the process of life.”

“Immortality is the process of living, taken one step farther
than death.”



Life is a journey of personal growth, a process of living where we become who we are.

  • The process of living gives us what we need.
  • The process of living gives us what we want.
  • The process of living takes us where we need to be.

Pay attention to the process of life, and it will give you what you need. Attention, focus and awareness bring the process of life and immortality alive in our lives.

There is a part of our brain designed to get what we want at the time we want it. If we are in danger, we need to get out of danger “right now.” If we are hunting for food, we must survive and be successful. In finding a berry, a nut or a fish to eat… we must act quickly to get what we want.

Most of life, however, can be accomplished with ease and no hurry, as a process of living. If we are in the right place, at the right moment, doing the right thing… the process of living will provide what is needed.

What is the process of living, the process of life? It is life in motion, all about us and inside us all.

Life is happening all around us, and there is intelligence to it all. This intelligence is our own that we share with the world. This intelligence will provide us all with need: health, happiness, freedom… provided we cooperate with life, with how we are designed.

And how are we designed? We are designed to be healthy, happy and free… and last forever. But we must treat ourselves well. We must be good to others and good the world in which we live. At its best, life is simple.

Most of us know what to do for wellness, how to be good to ourselves and others… So why don’t we do this? It is a matter of habit. All of life is a form of habits, some good and some bad. Death is a habit, something we don’t have to do. We can chose to live.

To allow life to work well for us, we must act in a manner good for ourselves, good for others and good for the world in which we live. This means eating well and exercising, of course. It means doing the work to have good and supportive friends. It means getting all our healthy human needs met, and we are the one’s to do this. We are the ones to make it happen as we chose how to live.

To have the process of life work for us, we have to be good to ourselves and good to world. This creates a habit of giving and receiving where life goes well.

Life is simple. There are no secrets, and the truth is not complex.

When our needs are not met, when we are not able to give… We have fallen out of balance. We have fallen out of grace, and the good nature of the world has difficulty finding us.

Understanding our needs, getting them met, working toward well-being in a way that benefits ourselves, others and the world—all of this allows the process of life to help us—good things happen and fall into place. Happiness gathers. Life becomes good.


Changing what we do and how we do it
is the key to personal growth.

To feel good, we have to do something
good, for ourselves and others.

If we do nothing new, the same thing will
happen, again and again.


(From p 195 of my book, “The Lessons in Love”)

Part of spiritual growth is to begin to see things with love. Looking with love will reveal the true nature of live and result in a greater understanding of ourselves.

If we accept love as the primary force running the universe, things begin to change. We see the actions of others within the light of love, and we understand why people do the things they do.

When someone does something unkind or unthinking, we understand them. We understand the distress that led to their behavior. People may often do unkind things to bolster low self-esteem. Others may cause us harm.

If we witness unkind acts, we can do what we can to stop it, but we do not have to carry anger and resentment with us after the harmful events. We can look at the person who did harm with understanding. We can look at the situation with love, and let it go. To see events with love, is always a choice we have.

Anger, Rage and Love

It is natural to feel anger and rage at certain events, but we need to pay attention to how we handle it? To retaliate in kind usually makes matters worse. To harbor resentment poisons ourselves.

If we find ourselves stuck in anger and resentment, it may be helpful to confide in a friend, to get it “off our chest.” It may be helpful to write down how we feel.

“Ill-will is poison”

As we begin to see others with love, we may understand their inner nature, and we may also understand our own nature. We may feel the good feelings of love more deeply. We may understand life. We may feel a belonging to the world we have never before felt.

As we see things with love, we may acquire new abilities and have knowledge to be shared.
As a person of love, we have a great gift to give the world. Our life begins.

From “The Lessons in Love”

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“Turn the other cheek.”

God is collective agreement, balance and non-opposition.

When we agree with all that exists, we are impervious to harm.

When we oppose nothing, nothing can harm us.



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(From p 187 of my book, “The Lessons in Love”):

The magic words, “I love you,” can rarely be spoken too much. They carry the power of enhancement: giving grace to both the speaker and receiver.

Some people rarely, if ever, hear these words or have heard these words growing up. These simple words, when spoken with meaning, can change the course of lives.

For a child who never hears, “I love you,” at home, a sincere neighbor’s voice saying these words can make a lasting impression. The child no longer feels alienated, but starts to feel a part of life, that he or she has a place.

The effect of the words, “I love you,” never seems to change. No matter what our age, we always need to hear and say, “I love you.” This makes us part of the world, and makes the world belong to us. The words, “I love you,” give us strength and hope for new beginnings. The words, “I love you,” tell us why we are here.

“The Lessons in Love”


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Are we the highest form of life,

or do we need the entire creation

to “figure out” and understand

all there is know?


The world and nature reflect our

behaviors in their own behavior.




Thoughts, feelings, beliefs and behavior

create our world—within and outside of

ourselves.



Can a cat figure out the secret to life, the

riddle of the Universe? Can we?


We might imagine the cat does not have

a brain large enough to contemplate, to

discern the truth? Do we?


Is a brain required? Or does all the Universe

know the truth of life?


Does every particle and wave know what it is?

Does all of life know its place?


Thought can help us progress or hold us back?


Do we know what we think we know? Are our

thoughts taking us where we want to go?



Most lasting self improvement is slow. There may be

sudden leaps of incredible dimension, but added
 over

time, these are fewer than the simple daily experience

of benevolent change.